Married men only please......?

If you work and your wife stays home, for whatever reasons, kids, health, whatever - when you are home from work and on your days off do you help around the house? If it's your home too shouldn't you want to do things there also. I do everything myself, clean, cook, laundry, cut grass (big yards), shovel snow, plant flowers and do gardening, cut trees, etc. Why is my husband so lazy after work? I see men on my street always working in the yard and they work at a job too? Do you help or do you think it's all her job. Be honest, as I am really interested and need others opinions. Thanks - 10 points to best answer.

Married men only please......?
Maybe he is depressed. Also, maybe he needs a career change. Driving all day is hard to do, even though it doesnt seem likeit. Talk to him about what bothers him before you get too upset.
Reply:I help around the house every day. My view is that the responsibilities of kids and house/yard work are both our resonsibility. Plus she's more happy when I help, which makes life easier for me.
Reply:My husband is sorta the same. we both work night shift and we'll get home sometimes he gets on the computer and is there for over an hour, I go to sleep, get up around 3, fix our lunches, get clothes together, fix supper, do the necessary house work. he gets up about 2 hours before we leave for work and does nothing except drink coffee, eat supper and is on the computer again. Plus he loves to spend money. Help with the house work is non-existant with him. Good luck with yours........
Reply:I believe that the man should help around the house.


In my household there are things that I do and I would not let my wife do them like cut grass, trees etc.





Since you are staying at home you should do more house work than him. Basically I look at the total package - work + house work. It should be about the same for both spouses. Both partners should be contributing to the family about equal amount of work, that includes house work and work work.





Your husband needs to get off is lazy a$$ and do something like a man.





Good Luck.
Reply:I work full time and my wife stays at home to cook and clean (no kids at home). I still do the lawn mowing and all repairs and fixups. Once in a while she'll mow the lawn for me while I'm at work and it's a nice suprise, but I don't expect her to do it. However in your husbands defense if I fall asleep at work at my desk nobody dies, if your hubby were to fall asleep at work, behind the wheel, many lives could be lost. Hope I have helped. God bless!
Reply:if you love your wife that go's with out saying yes I'll help my wife when ever she needs me
Reply:I love to cook and help with the cleaning and laundry. I love my wife so much I would do anything to help her. Some men go to work and when they get home they just want to veg out. And you are right he is lazy, but maybe you can do things to motivate him, if he does something around the house reward him and see if he responds.
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i cant feel alot of love here......unless the husband job is hard and requires transfere from one site to a nother that makes him warnout and needs to set. ..... other wise


he must help.. the age and the helth of the husband is also involved in this inquery to be honest....... but where ever love is ... help will be on the way good luck
Reply:actually i do help out a lot .my wife has a very very part time job which she works out of our home. she also takes care of the kid so when ever i get a chance to help out, cook dinner ( which is one of my favorites because or child helps me) do the laundry what ever i can because i know no matter my job there is nothing more draining than kids. we spend some much time with her but she just has so much energy and it takes a lot out of my wife and i know this. another thing my wife and i do is compromise she doesn't mind doing laundry but hates folding them so i fold and she puts away, i like being out side so i do all that kind of stuff on my own but she does the things she specifically wants done. so far so good i hope this helps