Mature honest answers only please how would u feel/do if your fiance did this to u on valentines day?

I got him a nice card/gift.He said he "tryed" to get me flowers but the florist would not deliver because we had a bad snow storm(true but nothing like waiting till the last min) and no gift or card.Then we went to diner(my doing) . when the bill came he made no effort to take it so i said do u want me to put it on our "family c.c"(we have a joint one for house bills that we both put the same money in) and he said sure.So basicly we went "dutch".I will say he did get me a clock about 4 weeks later after his mom asked me what he got me and i told her nothing.

Mature honest answers only please how would u feel/do if your fiance did this to u on valentines day?
This would not fly with me at all. Basically, if you want to get married, to him, get used to this type of treatment: that you are nothing special and you'll get no effort from him. If that's OK with you, then get married. If it's not, you need to seriously rethink this marriage.


By the way, if he tried to get you flowers, why were they not delivered when the snow storm passed when all the other flowers that were ordered for V day were delivered?
Reply:The question is not what he did or didn't do on Valentine's Day. The question is what does he do on a daily basis? How does he treat you? Does he take your feelings in to account? Does he send you flowers or buy you gifts just because? Does he write you notes or send you sweet emails or text messages? How often does he open up to you about his feelings toward you? What is communication like between the two of you? Is it open, honest, comfortable? If so, then you should be able to let him know how you felt about Valentine's Day!
Reply:maybe he doesnt feel like he doesnt have to try anymore because you're already engaged... tell him how you feel! he might not know it bothered you.